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If your sub makes even a tiny noise, the punishment gets worse at home – one idea is to leave them without orgasm after hours of toy play. Completely ignore your sub. Tell them they’re not allowed to come and visit if you don’t live together. Add extra punishments for every text and call they make to you.
Make your sub do something they don’t like. For women, she may not like giving blowjobs. For a femdom punishment, try pegging if your sub doesn’t like it. Have the sub write “I must not (broken rule)” 200 times or until their hand aches too much to continue. Make your male sub dress in your clothes all day. Go for a walk around your neighborhood, or venture out somewhere more public. And take lots of pictures. Touching Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to touch or be touched by the Dominant. If the submissive shows their affection through touch, this can be especially difficult. Make the sub stand somewhere as if bound. Don’t provide any entertainment. Don’t let them move for a few hours.Sitting in a corner- Submissive sits in the corner of the room to have quiet reflection on the rule breaking. This should not be for an undetermined amount of time. Dominants should be careful to tow the line between correction and abuse. Find software like iTunes. Make the sub read the terms and conditions, making notes/summaries of it. Record your sub having an orgasm. Use this as their ringtone and call their phone in front of other doms/subs, at a fetish club, or at a sex party. This works very well if you have multiple subs, especially if all submissives are usually treated equally. It’ll hurt to be the least favorite.
Your Sub is restrained from moving, and if the objects fall or the glass leaks, it’s time for a harsher punishment.One way that you can do that is to use positive reinforcement when the submissive is following the rules. Positive reinforcement can be as effective as corporal punishment. Rewards can be used as motivators. As a submissive myself, nothing makes me happier than pleasing my Dominant. If I please him, then he reciprocates with more doting behavior. He delights in making me happy. So if I follow the rules, he rewards me. It makes me want to keep behaving. Positive reinforcement works best for me.
Attention- Maybe it’s a sweet text or message or maybe it’s a voice message. Either way it’s special attention that is given to the sub as a reward for following directions. Whips- This group includes regular whips, riding crops, and floggers. Impact from these types of instruments spread the strike out. Whenever I allow you to have a sissygasm, you will clean it up. And if one of my studs cums in my pussy, you will also clean it up. Now, the dominant partner doesn’t always have to come up with plans. The sub can very much give their input as well.There are lots of Bluetooth and internet-controlled long-distance sex toys available today. Some are small and discrete and can be worn in public. If your discipline starts to get too intense for the sub’s infraction, you may have done it out of anger.
Put them in a collar, attach a lead, and make them follow you everywhere. Tie their lead to something when you need to go out or do something private. Give your sub temporary tattoos. This could be an embarrassing face tattoo of a naked person or insults scrawled in sharpie. In two weeks I will be helping Stacee Skye go on KDPi Sissy Spring Break, and this year you have the opportunity to go along too. (General membership in The Institute is not required.) In addition to cross dressing punishment, this year will focus on toilet training and diapers along with the constant threat of public humiliation. Doms should do BDSM play purposefully. So, know that any out-of-left-field actions can easily damage a person’s trust in one way or another.Caning- This type of spanking happens when the blows are delivered by a thin cane made of rattan across your behind. The cane can be a single rod or a bundle. However, be careful when taking away rings or collars. It’s not fair to take away a wedding band. And in some couples, a collar is like a wedding band so treat that with the same restraint. Part of the draw of the lifestyle as a submissive is to relinquish control to someone else so that they can help you be the best version of yourself. It’s not all about pleasure, well, that’s relative. There is pleasure in having someone take charge of parts of your life. There is pleasure in exploring how far you can push yourself. That’s why submissives need Dominants. It’s about learning your limits and having boundaries. The Dominant that you gift with your submission will guide you and enforce the boundaries when you forget. How they enforce is between you both and is something that should be discussed frequently. If your sub is excited for an outing or a sexual, kinky, or romantic date, cancel it until they learn to behave. And the foundation of that work is having sissy rules he must obey to begin (and complete the transformation).
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